Who exactly are men loyal to? Is it to the children or to the mother of their children?

Come to think of it, the woman is absolutely certain that the children are hers because she carried them in her own body and delivered them. 

Very few family lineages carry distinct features that can physically be used as a quality control measure to qualify a child as belonging to the particular man.

There are patches of what are known as birthmarks that can run in a family but they are not as distinct as that of the donkey family and any random man might produce them in a child. In other words, there is literally no measure of proof of fatherhood other than the fact that the woman is that man’s wife. In a population full of alternative virile men surrounding the woman, it is comical how life has conditioned men to simply ride on assumed belief.

It explains why the new breed of man eager to put certainty to their progeny procure DNA verification each time mama watoto pops out an offspring. It’s only after a positive test that they can walk to Biashara street to buy clothes for the baby.

Society has trained men to believe that women are good creatures who cannot harm a fly. That deceit is what women have used over the ages to hoodwink men to consider them as weak, yet they run the show and spin planet earth at their own appointed speed.

So, once a child is born, the man is told the baby is his and he has no grounds to refute. He must be pleased and work harder to provide for the…